photo from pixels.comExternal stimuli can push and motivate us to concentrate and try to realize our big dreams. There are two types of motivation: internal and external. Internal - when motivation comes from ourselves, and external comes from the environment. Although the two types are different, they are undoubtedly closely related to each other, as even motivation from the outside later turns into internal motivation as a reflection on the things that led us to take action. So, how does an external incentive affect your inner motivation, and why does it pay off in your favor?   Our big dreams scare us and seem unattainable. And that is okay, because they must be like that, otherwise they’re not really dreams. So, we have a vision in our minds, but it...

photo from pixels.comYou have an idea and want to implement it, but lack the will to act! Oh, if only there was a guarantee you could do it - without waiting for anything, you would dive right in and act! Finally, you would be free to do what you desire. But… what to do if the forecasts for the future are vague? There is no place to buy a guarantee of success! If only there were such a place - I believe the line would be so long it would extend to Mars!   Okay, and now let’s look at it from a different angle. What guarantees your success in your line of work? Even if you feel safe right now, what guarantees that this will be the case for the next five years? What guarantees that you will always be valued in your current activities and what if a day will...

photo from pixels.comYou can pursue your dreams - or not! Your choice. I'll reveal a little secret to you: No matter how much you desire for your dreams to become a reality and how hard you work to make them happen, there will be moments when they will lead you deep into an emotional abyss and that is the naked truth about pursuing dreams.   Here are some truths about pursuing dreams that are hard to admit.  1. While you chase your dreams, you will feel like a complete foolMost ambitious dreamers have to face this reality because before the dream is achieved, it can sound like delusions that are not destined to come true. Now really, for example, what kind of sales manager might think of becoming an actor! Absolute nonsense! But lo and behold, here...

Photo from pixels.comIf you have a big goal you may inevitably face a dilemma: is it worth investing so much in yourself to achieve your goals? The investment I am talking about in this case is both a time, a financial and an emotional investment in ourselves that we need to make in order to achieve the goal. After all, you need to spend an insane amount of time both searching and educating yourself, and probably some financial resources given the opportunities available. So the question is, is it worth it? After all, you don't even know if all this investment will pay off, and if it pays off, it is not clear when and whether it will bring the desired benefits.I will start with a real story that led me to write on this topic. Kate is currently working at an...

photo from pixels.comYou’re looking for a formula to start changing your life for the better, but that seems really hard to implement because today’s reality is far removed from the reality you want. 3 easy steps to start changing your life for the better.   It’s very easy to get caught up in a regular routine and just automatically do the things we’ve been doing day in and day out for years and years. As easy as it is to do what we typically do, it’s even harder to change it. It's a habit, and changing your existing habits requires, it seems, inhuman efforts to "uproot" them and "sow" new habits in their place. So I answer this question: why is it so hard to change your life in the direction you want? This is still often referred to as the comfort zone,...

Photo from pixels.com Finally, you refined the idea you decided to implement and it is a joy that you managed to discover what you wanted to do, shared that idea with people close to you and immediately regretted doing so. Your fantastic idea suddenly crashed, and the determination to implement it is gone because it turns out to be difficult to implement. Like most ideas, when they are just ideas! The question is, how do you resist other people’s preconceived notions about the implementation of your idea, and not let foreign doubts, so that they don’t get in the way?   Just discovering an idea: what you want to do is a really difficult task, but that’s just the tip of the iceberg - after all, an idea does not implement itself. And it’s hard to even...

Photo from pixels.comOur thoughts are always with us. From the moment we wake up in the morning to the moment we fall asleep at night. Even during sleep, we are affected by the subconscious, so it can be said that even when we’re asleep we are affected by our thoughts. What we think directly affects us all day, every day. Although indirectly, we spend most of our lives in our "heads". Not surprisingly, the success of our goals also becomes highly dependent on what we think. So why not make your mind fortress a great place for prosperity.Why does the achievement of our goals depend so much on our thoughts?   And how can it be otherwise? After all, at every step, we are affected by our thoughts. An athlete preparing for a competition, an entrepreneur...

photo from pixels.comOur goals can drive us crazy! I'm serious. Well, but if that doesn’t happen, they give us diamonds. As you know, diamonds have tremendous value, and you have to work hard to acquire them. And not everyone has such luck. To achieve the goal, we can often feel like diamond seekers who are working every day to find that dream treasure. The goal usually arises in our lives out of a desire to have something or to change something. And first of all, the implementation of the goal begins in the mind. We imagine the end result we desire. We put the script in our minds of how we will feel when we stumble towards the top of the mountain. We see in our imagination that red carpet of victory on which we march, but the radiance of its glory fades...